Living in a Shanghainese area
November 14th, 2010Having lived in several different local areas in Shanghai, I just recently started to notice the small things that that match all the rumors about Shanghainese. Generalisations are of course always wrong to do, but these ones are based on and explained by my landlord, and it gives some flavor to Shanghai.
Photo below shows a repair guy from Haier who came to fix a leak from my aircon. Sitting on the aircon five floors up he was secured with a rope around his colleagues waist.
But the whole thing behind both the photo and this post are my neighbors. First thing is that they don’t mind being extremely loud in normal matters, but also tend to panic when there is something wrong, such as water dripping from my aircon. I woke up one morning with first my landlord calling that a neighbor was complaining over a leak (she manged to first complain to the one responsible for the area who then found my landlords number), and then hearing her outside screaming loudly to anyone close by and pointing towards my aircon. I had to go down and spend 10 minutes to explain 1) keep your voice down and 2) just let me know and we will arrange someone to fix it. oh, it was that easy. Then right after I left the voice went up and she kept complaining to anyone close by…. And before that was even worse. One morning she came storming into my apartment and blaiming me for spitting down on their small window sill, an act that has to be done between the wall and my aircon. This time I got quite upset telling her both this and that about manners and normal education. Apparently it didnt have any effect on her, apart from that she didn’t dare to come back complaining about the leak.
To be somewhat mean I have realised that Shanghainese often seem friendly when you meet them on the street, but not when you live next to them. Things that seem normal for me such as smiling and saying hi seldom happens, and showing respect for each other has I not yet come in contact with in my daily life. I have three families living next to me and I walk through their balcony/kitchen everyday. I keep saying good morning and hi but they are always hiding away ignoring me.
Funny thing though is that I still prefer these small annoyances compared to living in a closed expat area where you don’t come in contact with people’s normal life. And I would not be surprised if it is not personal, instead aimed towards the fact that more and more foreigners move in and with that prices go up etc etc or that they are just uncomfortable with foreigners so close by…..my landlord is far more mean in his comments than I intend to be.






















